On the Journey of Life, we will often experience feelings of abandonment and rejection from others; it’s just part of the process of finding the ones that we are meant to be with and play with. Most of us walking the planet today have deep wounds of this experience that stem from childhood because our parents were not equipped with the tools themselves to avoid doing this wounding to us. This is because as a species we are still evolving. We may have evolved in a physical form but the emotional component of our being has yet to fully evolve. That is why we still have wars going on and we still “war” within our own families, friendships and work environments.
Some of us don’t feel heard, understood, listened to, respected, valued, recognized, appreciated, acknowledged…instead we feel just the opposite. This is a deep wounding that needs to be examined because if we are still interacting with people who keep bringing those feelings to the surface; it’s a sign that this wound is aching to be healed and your repeated experience of it is the Universe’s Way of bringing it to the surface, so that it can GET YOUR ATTENTION!
Once you realize (usually from repeated experience) that you have deep wounds in this area you can bring your awareness to that wound and shed some light on it so that it can be healed. Most often than not, it came from your childhood. You can begin to fix the problem yourself, by forgiving your parents who ultimately didn’t know any better because they only had the experience of what was done to them and carried it forward. They loved you the best way they could with the knowledge that they had within their generation. The next step after that is you, yourself most stop abandoning yourself the way it was done to you because everyone you encounter until you do so will abandon you in some way shape or form. And your unaware self will be wanting and wishing for them to fix this wound in you. You gotta fix your own wounds in order for them to really heal.
Everyone you attract in your experience will be a mirror for you to rate your progress 😉 It’s all designed to get you to wake up to your “issues”.
So the sooner you do the work on yourself by deeply loving and caring for these wounds, the sooner you will bring better experiences into your reality.
Therefore be aware:
YOU DO MATTER.
YOU ARE LOVEABLE.
YOU DO HAVE SOMETHING WORTHWHILE TO SAY AND DESERVE TO BE HEARD.
and YOU HAVE MUCH VALUE.
you may in fact, be quite the peach.
So, if someone doesn’t recognize you and doesn’t appreciate you, don’t take it personally – they are just not meant to be part of your experience in life and their projections on you are simply their own wounds, fears and insecurities and have NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. They might be just be a kumquat instead who needs to embrace their own unique kumquat self.
Find your own fruit bowl to play in by embracing the kind of fruit you are. Both kinds have their own unique flavor. Both are on their own unique journey from seed to ripeness and fullblown juicy flavor. lol
and NEVER, EVER ABANDON YOURSELF AGAIN. 🙂